S and I were on the beach in Balboa, looking for my family. We both spotted a cute, older couple sitting in the shade under the docks, and it was easy to see that they were my parents.
"Do your parents ever hug or hold hands in front of you?" I asked S.
"No! They'd never." MF has told me the same of his parents, and I remember the same about Yu-Hung's parents and the parents of other friends.
I like that my parents are publicly affectionate without being overly so. They walked down the street in Balboa Island holding hands, and they'd put their arms around the other while they sat next to each other in the sand. Every now and again, they'd give each other a quick peck on the cheeks or the lips. And it was sweet. (If you're wondering how long they've been together, my parents have been married for about 26 years now.)
What about you? Are your parents publicly affectionate, too? (And if they're divorced, are they publicly affectionate with their SOs?) How do you feel about it?
- Lovey dovey parents
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My parents were (Dad passed away several years ago) never publicly affectionate. I wish they were, so I could have had some sort of role model.
yeah, mine weren't big on the PDA's, and i guess i got so used to them NOT touching and hugging...that it weirded me out when they finally did.
oh yeah....they really are....just ask Nancy, lol. My parents have been married for 35 years now....35!!! They still look into each others eyes and only see each other....they are wonderful role models...I love that they are as affectionate as they are, makes me feel that they still have passion/respect/love for each other after so long! :)
That's adorable.
My parents don't do any PDA at all which makes me feel weird and a little uncomfortable holding hands with my boyfriend in front of them. It's like being overly affectionate in front of them even though holding hands isn't being overly affectionate.
My parents don't do any PDA at all which makes me feel weird and a little uncomfortable holding hands with my boyfriend in front of them. It's like being overly affectionate in front of them even though holding hands isn't being overly affectionate.
2008-09-01 10:14 pm (UTC)